The shape of your engagement ring can be an incredibly personal decision. Regardless of whether you choose to go shopping for such a sparkler with your partner or opt to have the diamond be a complete surprise, this piece is a representation of the love and commitment between the two of you. It's also something that you'll wear on a daily basis, making it incredibly important that it feels authentic to you and your personal style. Maybe you gravitate toward a simple solitaire stone, wanting something understated and classic, or perhaps you select a colored gemstone on a chunky band, seeking out a trend-forward piece that feels unlike anything else. However, this year, there appears to be a particular diamond that's a popular choice among brides: a pear-shaped engagement ring.
These teardrop diamonds offer a twist on the conventional oval-cut stone, catering to brides who don't want something that feels too modern—or too traditional. "Pear-shape diamonds are an excellent choice for an engagement ring for several reasons," says Sarah Ortega, the founder of Sarah O. Jewelry. "These elegant stones give your fingers an elongated look due to the long shape and tapered end of the stone." Additionally, if you're searching for something that feels a bit vintage-inspired, this type of shape could be the ideal choice. "People sometimes write off pear-shaped stones as old fashioned, but set cleanly, either with prongs or in a bezel, they can really take on eye-catching silhouettes while still feeling classic enough to wear for years to come," adds Jennie Kwon, the founder of Jennie Kwon Designs.
Below, we explain why pear-shaped engagement rings are currently trending, as well as what to keep in mind when shopping for your own teardrop diamond.
Why Are Pear-Shaped Engagement Rings Currently Trending?
Over the past year, teardrop-shaped diamonds have populated social media feeds, as more celebrities and influencers select the jewel as their engagement ring. One of the most prominent examples? Demi Lovato's bespoke diamond on a yellow gold band. However, experts add that it's not just stars who are opting for such a shape. "Google searches for pear-shaped rings are up around 18 percent, and that’s mirrored in what we’re seeing day to day in terms of sales," says Neil Dutta, the managing director of Angelic Diamonds. "Couples are looking for diamond shapes that feel a little more individual, and the pear is a great option for that. It’s elegant and eye-catching, but still rooted in a classic look."
Other jewelers note that this type of shape can often make a stone appear larger, a key factor driving this current trend. "Pear-shaped diamonds are picking up in popularity due to their elongated shape making them flattering on the finger and often appear larger than their carat weight," says Nicole Wegman, the CEO and founder of Ring Concierge. "While oval cuts remain a popular choice, the pear offers a similar elongating effect with a slightly more distinctive and unexpected look."
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Pear-Shaped Engagement Rings: 4 Key Things to Consider
Looking for your own pear engagement ring or curious what you need to know about this trend-forward shape? Below, the experts explain four key facts to know about teardrop stones before committing to it as your sparkler.
It May Look Larger Than Other Shapes
As previously established, such a diamond can often appear larger—and more prominent—than other shapes. "Pear diamonds are often more shallow which means they carry their carat weight on top of the stone," Ortega says. "This is good news for you because it means a pear may look larger than a different shaped diamond in the same carat weight."
It Can Be More Susceptible to Damage
"One thing I always point out is that the pointed tip of a pear-shaped diamond is slightly more vulnerable than other shapes," Dutta says. "Because that tip narrows into a fine point, it's more exposed to knocks and can chip if it isn't well-protected. However, by choosing a V-prong or bezel setting, you can shield that area and make it more suitable for everyday wear." Kwon echoes this point, noting that her team often offers a three-prong setting for this type of shape, in addition to a bezel setting.
Symmetry Is Important
When it comes to a teardrop diamond, you'll want to ensure it's symmetrical. "Pear-shaped stones really need to feel balanced, and even small differences can affect how they look on the hand," Dutta says. "I recently worked with a couple who had their heart set on a particular diamond, but when they viewed it from the side, they noticed a slight asymmetry that changed their mind." As a result, make sure to carefully examine all edges of the sparkler. "You want a stone that’s beautifully balanced, not too round, not too pointy," Wegman adds.
Consider the Color
Like other shapes, a pear diamond can look slightly different depending on where you're viewing it. "The pointed end of a pear can sometimes show more warmth than the rounded side, so it's a good idea to view the stone in different lighting before making a final choice," Dutta says. "One client initially chose a lower color grade to prioritize size, but decided to go one grade higher after seeing how much difference it made in natural light."
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3 Ways to Make Your Pear-Shaped Engagement Ring More Unique
Even though this shape is already particularly distinct, you may be searching for ways to make your engagement ring truly one-of-a-kind. Here, jewelers explain different aspects to consider in order to do just that.
Focus on the Setting
The setting is where you can truly make a diamond your own, Wegman says. "I think some might be intimidated by pear-shaped diamonds since they seem so specific, but we've set them with a modern twist, set slightly askew at diagonal across the finger, and straight across horizontally which is surprisingly balanced looking," Kwon adds.
Sentimental Details
To make a sparkler feel unique to you and your partner, considering incorporating aspects that highlight you and your relationship into the piece. "Hidden details can also make a ring feel personal," Dutta says. "For example, many customers choose to engrave the coordinates of where a couple first met, or the date that they met, underneath the setting. Whilst it's completely invisible to everyone else, it's a thoughtful and meaningful detail to them."
Band Choice
For many brides and grooms, the band can feel much less important than the stone itself. However, experts encourage you to pay special attention to the one you select. "Band choice is another area where you can add individuality," Dutta says. "A slim pavé band keeps the look classic, while a twisted or mixed-metal band brings in more texture and character. It’s often these smaller decisions that make the biggest difference in helping a ring feel like it truly belongs to you."
