The 15 Wedding Getting-Ready Outfits That Aren't Robes

As a big fan of Eberjey’s modal pajamas, BRIDES contributor Emily Orofino chose this lace-trimmed set while getting ready on her wedding day. “I knew it would be pretty enough for pictures but comfortable enough to wear at the end of a long night. I also appreciated the thin elastic waistband as I got ready—it wasn’t tight at all, giving me plenty of time to breathe before wrestling into my shapewear for the main event,” she says about this lacy set.

Size Range: XS-XL | Materials: Tencel modal, spandex | Shades: 2 | Personalization: No 

Pockets can be shockingly hard to come by in loungewear pieces, so we adore the three pockets in this menswear-inspired Polo Ralph Lauren set. Two pockets in the boxer bottoms and one in the long-sleeved shirt ensure you’ll always have your phone ready for photo ops or tissues to dab up happy tears. 

Size Range: XS-XXL | Materials: Cotton | Shades: 2 | Personalization: No

If you’re having a high-glamour formal or black-tie wedding, your bridesmaids should get ready in this pajama set from Sleeper. This festive outfit is effortlessly chic and even makes the perfect outfit for your ‘maids to slip into for the afterparty. 

Size Range: XS-XL | Materials: Viscose and feathers | Shades: Multiple | Personalization: No

Set the stage for a relaxed, luxe wedding day with this set of washable silk pajamas from Lunya. You and your bridesmaids will love wearing this ultra-comfy oversized silk tee and shorts while getting ready for the big day—and well after. Available in seven shades (including white for the bride), Lunya's sleep set is made with 100 percent washable mulberry silk and safer, more sustainable dyes.

Size Range: XS-2X | Materials: Washable mulberry silk | Shades: 7 | Personalization: No

This soft modal romper strikes the perfect balance of casual, comfy, and charming, with a sweet scalloped lace trim along the legs and neckline. There’s a thin elastic drawstring to give the garment shape, too. 

Size Range: XS-XL | Materials: Modal, elastane | Shades: 1 | Personalization: No 

Lake Pajamas' signature Kimono set is ideal for weddings in chillier settings, helping your bridal party not sacrifice style to keep warm. From the pretty bell sleeves to the relaxed, flowy fit, your bridesmaids will cherish this stunning long-sleeve set long after your big day. Opt for custom gift boxes if you want to gift these to your party before the wedding in an extra-special way.

Size Range: XXS-XXL | Materials: Modal, spandex | Shades: 5 | Personalization: No 

You'll never go wrong with a matching Roller Rabbit set—the adorable patterns and ultrasoft fabric are hard to beat. The miniature blue hearts function as the perfect subtle "something blue," or you can opt for some of the pink styles alongside the blue if you don't want your bridesmaids to be too matchy-matchy.

Size Range: XS-XL | Materials: 60's Cambric Cotton | Shades: 2 | Personalization: No 

Linen is a must-have material for warm-weather weddings to keep your 'maids feeling comfortable and sweat-free in the bridal suite. This Quince set is affordable, simple, and made from 100 percent European linen—a worthy investment for your bridal party.

Size Range: XS-XL | Materials: Linen | Shades: 5 | Personalization: No 

This is BRIDES writer Maddie Barber's favorite button-down in her closet (and she has many in her closet). The fabric is lightweight and breathable, and the fit is perfectly relaxed and slightly oversized—the several personalization options (and extensive size range!) make The Charlotte a no-brainer for bridal parties.

Size Range: XXS-18/20 | Materials: Cotton blend | Shades: 4 | Personalization: Yes 

Seeking out something simple enough to please everyone in your bridal party? This Zara button-up shirt will do the trick. Made from comfortable cotton poplin, no one will complain about wearing this for hours pre-wedding, and the sophisticated style helps everyone look extra coordinated.

Size Range: XXS-XXL | Materials: Cotton | Shades: 1 | Personalization: No 

Your destination wedding is an excellent opportunity for more playful looks. This Damson Madder set captures the travel theme perfectly with a graphic for practically every destination, and its colorful pattern will make for the best pre-wedding photographs.

Size Range: 2-14 | Materials: Cotton, linen | Shades: 1 | Personalization: No 

This chic, versatile POSSE set spares no details with its scalloped neckline, understated floral cutouts, and retro, bloomer-style shorts. We don't doubt that your bridesmaids will wear this all summer long, even after your wedding day—the cotton fabric (especially in the white colorway) is breathable enough to sustain any outdoor activity.

Size Range: XXS-XL | Materials: Cotton | Shades: 8 | Personalization: No 

These blue stripes and eyelet details give all the "coastal grandmother" vibes for your beachfront wedding. We love how this set feels more elevated than classic pajamas but still possesses the cohesive feel to ensure fabulous getting-ready photos.

Size Range: XXS-XL (petite sizes available) | Materials: Cotton | Shades: 1 | Personalization: No 

While you’ll appreciate how the classic contrast piping of this nightshirt makes it look a little dressy in photos, your bridesmaids will be thankful for the super soft modal material that allows them to feel comfortable during long hair and makeup sessions.

Size Range: XXS-XL | Materials: Tencel modal, spandex | Shades: Multiple | Personalization: No

The ease of this option can’t be overstated—the lightweight, crinkled cotton fabric comfortably skims the body, and the buttons make it easily removable if the group is running behind schedule. The T-strap back offers a subtly elegant detail. 

Size Range: XS-XL | Materials: Cotton | Shades: Multiple | Personalization: No

FAQ

• While it's definitely not a required item for your wedding day, matching bridal party getting-ready outfits make for an extra special touch and look stylish and cohesive in photos.

• Some great alternatives to getting-ready robes for your bridal party are rompers, pajama sets, oversized shirts, flannels, jumpsuits, and dresses. However, the decision is up to you, your preference, and the tone you're looking for.

• Although it's not required, the bride will typically cover the cost of the getting-ready outfits, but it doesn't hurt to ask your bridal party, too.

• Typically, the bride will wear the same or a similar style in white, and the bridesmaids wear the same style in the bridal colors. This way, the outfits look cohesive in photos, but the bride still stands out.