The Blessing of the Hands is a popular ceremony reading and often recited by a celebrant or partner immediately after the ring exchange or during a handfasting ceremony. Written by Rev. Daniel L Harris, the words beautifully illustrate the multifaceted role of a partner's hands in a lifelong relationship. The verses reflect on how these hands provide comfort, shape a shared future and remain tenderly intertwined from youth into old age.

Lots of couples love the idea of a hand-fasting, but aren't sure how to do it, or what to say during it - particularly if they're planning a DIY ceremony - so this piece is often cited as a perfect accompaniment. It's also a lovely option for couples who don't want to recite traditional vows.

The words are below and we've created a useful and pretty print and go download of this poem below.

Blessing of the Hands by Rev. Daniel L. Harris

These are the hands of your best friend, young and strong and full of love for you, that are holding yours on your wedding day, as you promise to love each other today, tomorrow, and forever.

These are the hands that will work alongside yours, as together you build your future.

These are the hands that will passionately love you and cherish you through the years, and with the slightest touch, will comfort you like no other.

These are the hands that will hold you when fear or grief fills your mind.

These are the hands that will countless times wipe the tears from your eyes; tears of sorrow, and tears of joy.

These are the hands that will tenderly hold your children.

These are the hands that will help you to hold your family as one.

These are the hands that will give you strength when you need it.

And lastly, these are the hands that even when wrinkled and aged, will still be reaching for yours, still giving you the same unspoken tenderness with just a touch.

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