Key Takeaways
- Take photos of natural moments like laughing with your partner for a genuine and timeless wedding album.
- Avoid forcing or practicing specific poses ahead of time to keep your wedding photos relaxed and authentic.
- Communicate with your photographer about your preferences to ensure you feel comfortable and confident during the shoot.
For many couples, their wedding photos are some of their most treasured items. Years after their nuptials, those pictures will provide a window into their big day—and allow them to remember the moment they said "I do." However, in the lead-up to your own nuptials, you may find yourself anxious about the prospect of taking such shots with your partner. What's the ideal pose? How can you avoid looking uncomfortable or too stiff? Should you practice your smile? Before you start stressing about your lack of modeling training, know that these types of concerns are completely normal and understandable—and that there's nothing you actually need to do to prepare for this photo session.
"The biggest piece of advice I can provide for brides or grooms regarding posing in their wedding photos is not to," says Gina Esposito, wedding photographer. "The more a bride or groom can be in the moment and focused on their significant other and/or being present is what will yield the most authentically beautiful images of themselves. Ideally, a couple will hire a photographer to be the professional, directing them through all the different aspects of what to do in order to look their most natural."
Meet the Expert
- Gina Esposito is the CEO and principal photographer of Anée Atelier, an award-winning New York City-based photography boutique.
- Mikkel Woodruff is a luxury and destination wedding photographer based on the East Coast.
- Terri Baskin is the owner of Terri Baskin Photography. She’s based in the Washington D.C. area and has over 10 years of experience.
However, even though there's little you need to do ahead of your photo session, there are some key tips to know (and keep in mind) to ensure your shots are natural and candid. Below, the experts break down the best posing tips for newlyweds, as well as the top mistakes to avoid. Read on for more.
How to Pose Naturally for Your Wedding Photos
It's no surprise: The best wedding photos are the ones that look completely natural. However, that being said, posing "naturally" doesn't come easy for everyone. One way to combat this dilemma? Hire a photographer you trust and feel comfortable around. "More times than not, if a person or couple is put in a position where they feel uncomfortable, the camera doesn't lie and feelings of insecurity will no doubt translate into the final product," Esposito says. "This is why it is so important to not only choose a professional photographer based on their images, but also off of who they are as a person. The photographer needs to be able to create an atmosphere that instills confidence and comfort in their subject."
Additionally, those candid shots are typically produced by capturing your natural movements. "I tell my couples if they’re inclined to do something or move in a natural way, don’t stop," says Mikkel Woodruff, a wedding photographer. "So much of the time I have couples smiling and laughing perfectly, and then they remember I’m there and stop to make sure they’re in the right position. Just keep going! If you don’t look good, the photographer should tell you."
Lastly, embrace natural poses like laughing or giggling. "If it’s discreet, do a little butt squeeze, the laughs from that are amazing," Woodruff says. "Or, try looking in your partner’s eyes for 20 seconds straight. Inevitably one of you will start laughing! Or, my favorite: Think of a secret—dirty or clean—and whisper it in your partner’s ear. This one works splendidly."
6 Pose Mistakes to Avoid When Taking Marriage or Wedding Photos
Want to appear as natural as possible in your shots? Here, we list out what to avoid when posing for pictures on your big day.
Unnatural Kisses
Kiss your partner the same way you would on an ordinary day—instead of staging a kissing pose. "If photos look too staged/posed, the emotional connection you have to the photos can get lost," says Terri Baskin, a wedding photographer. "The excitement of the wedding day is one that couples will relive over and over, and being able to feel the emotion in the photo helps when couples are naturally enjoying their day again and again."
Too Much Kissing
Your wedding photography session isn't a make-out session. "We want neat and clean kisses," Woodruff says. "Also, turn your head enough so you’re not squishing your partner’s nose in. If it feels like you’re squishing, you probably are." Keep your kisses soft, sweet, and romantic.
Stiff Arms
Avoid pressing your arms against your body. "If the bride wants to hold her bouquet, she should keep her arms relaxed and elongated," Woodruff says. "Pressing her elbows tightly into her body could make her arms less flattering."
Moving Too Fast
While a walking photo can be a great option, be sure to tread slowly when taking these shots. "It’s not a race," Woodruff says. "So many times the wedding party ends up walking way ahead. Just slow down and interact with each other."
Practicing Too Much
It's understandable that you may want to perfect your smile before your wedding day. However, Woodruff recommends spending that time elsewhere. "Don’t practice smiling because then you’ll overthink it," she says. "I can tell when couples have tried to practice their smiles, and they end up looking too self-conscious."
Not Sharing Your Preferences With the Photographer
If you have any insecurities or a side you prefer, tell the photographer. "It could be a height difference, a particular side you like photographed, or insecurities about, say, your arms or your stomach," Woodruff says. "Be vocal about this with your photographer beforehand, then you both can be more successful with the final product."
40 Wedding Photo Poses to Inspire Your Own
Remember: It's best not to overly prepare for your wedding photos, as that can cause you to look unnatural when taking your pics. However, it never hurts to share a few ideas with your photographer, so they can help guide you in the right direction. If you're searching for some inspiration, here are 40 popular wedding photo poses to consider for your big day.
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Walking Down Stairs
Photo by Maria Hibbs
If you have to walk down several flights of stairs to get to your ceremony, ask your photographer to capture a few candid shots of the act, like Maria Hibbs did at this couple's intimate elopement. It's the perfect way to get a stunning shot of your dress, hair, and veil.
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Getting Out of the Car
Photo by Kelly Mour
After you arrive to your reception as newlyweds, have your photographer snap a photo of the two of your exiting the car—especially if it's a vintage vehicle. At this couple's Denver nuptials, Kelly Mour captured the groom holding the door for the bride.
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Having a Tender Moment
Photo by Sophie Epton
Make sure your photographer captures at least one tender moment between you and your partner. At this couple's California nuptials, Sophie Epton snapped a sweet shot of the groom giving the bride a soft kiss on the side of her neck.
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Standing Face to Face
Photo by Cedar & Pines
Depending on your and your parent's style of affection, touching faces may feel extremely awkward—or completely natural. But trust us: Once you start posing, this tender (and iconic) wedding shot, like this one captured by Cedar & Pines at a couple's destination nuptials, will feel completely organic.
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Capturing the Back of the Dress
Photo by Rafal Ostrwoski
If you sprung for a dramatic train or veil as part of your ensemble, you'll likely want to show it off. Instead of completely turning your back to the camera, angle yourself with a demure glance over the shoulder, like this bride did with the help of her photographer, Rafal Ostrwoski.
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Taking a Spin
Photo by Kelly Hornberger
Regardless of whether you and your partner have been rehearsing your first dance for weeks or plan to improvise, have your photographer capture a few candid shots of you two showing off your dramatic moves. Kelly Hornberger snapped a photo of the groom spinning the bride around at their backyard nuptials.
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Finishing the Vows
Photo by Kiyah C Photography
While there are plenty of must-have getting-ready shots to capture, we find photos of the to-be-weds finishing up their vows particularly sentimental. Plus, they're a great way to capture your getting-ready outfit without being too obvious.
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Slipping on Shoes
Photo by Caroline Tran
While you may not think a shot of you putting on your shoes is particularly noteworthy, photographers employ this angle to ensure they document your footwear, which is often not visible in other photos.
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Having a First Look
Photo by The Lockharts
While the wedding-day first look is one of the most important photos, try not to think about how it's being captured. Instead, let the moment unfold naturally—and know that your photographer will capture every detail along the way.
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Putting on Earrings
PHOTO BY JENNY QUICKSALL
Even if your dress is the star of the show, don't forget to highlight the other details of your look in your photos. This particular pose focuses on the major accessories, including your earrings, engagement ring, and heirloom bracelets.
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Showing Off the Veil
PHOTO BY VINUTHNA GARIDIPURI
An intricate veil should never go unnoticed—or un-photographed. Position yourself—with or without your partner—so that the light filters through the fine material. The end result? A gorgeous shot.
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Buttoning Up the Suit
Photo by Alen Karupovic
When it comes to groom-specific photos, the quintessential buttoning-of-the-jacket pose is a must. It's a wonderful way to showcase a watch and cufflinks without getting too granular.
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Being Playful
PHOTO BY IRINA AND MATEJ
If you want to show off your playfulness, consider asking your photographer to snap a few shots of you in unique and silly poses. You can fiddle around with your heart-framed sunglasses, or pose for a few pictures while popping a bottle of champagne.
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Tying the Bow Tie
PHOTO BY ANYA KERNES PHOTOGRAPHY
Need more inspiration for photos of the groom? Photographers love capturing key moments during wedding prep like tying the tie, lacing up a pair of shoes, or fastening the watch.
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Holding Hands
PHOTO BY FOR THE LOVE OF IT
To capture an intimate moment between you and your partner, go for a stroll while holding hands. In addition to being a great photo, it's also an ideal shot for your wedding video.
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Sharing Secrets
PHOTO BY SASITHON PHOTOGRAPHY
Capture a romantic moment between you and your partner by whispering into each other's ears. Struggling on what to say? Recite silly sentences, jokes, or stories. Their spontaneous laughs will only add to the magic of the photo.
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Getting Ready Together
PHOTO BY LENA MIRISOLA
If you and your partner have chosen to get ready together, we can't think of a more special moment to capture. Case in point: This photo of a couple helping each other add final touches to their respective wedding suits.
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Looking Down at the Bouquet
PHOTO BY JANET LIN PHOTOGRAPHY
While you may be admiring your bridal bouquet throughout the day, make sure to capture a specific instance of it on camera. In addition to being a beautiful moment, such a photo also highlights your eye makeup.
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Running Away
Photo by Abby Jiu Photography
Add a bit of forward momentum for a dynamic way to feature a standout train. But don't be surprised if your photographer asks you to slowly run back and forth a few times; it's all worth it to catch the movement in the dress.
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Having a Quiet Moment
PHOTO BY FOR THE LOVE OF IT
One of the most beautiful photos your photographer can snap is of you and your partner stealing a quiet moment together. While this pose may be planned, it looks entirely candid and doesn't require much thought or effort.
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Admiring Your Dress
Photo by Chris & Ruth Photography
You spend months waiting to wear your perfect dress. Make sure to have your photographer capture a shot of you admiring your gown before putting it on.
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Twirling in a Dress
PHOTO BY IVY WEDDINGS
While wedding dresses look beautiful from every angle, they truly come to life when you move. Though you may feel silly doing a few twirls, the final photo will be dazzling and full of life, making it all worth it.
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Spinning Around
You don't need to wait for your first dance to partake in a few spins with your partner. Hold hands and twirl around with each other, documenting a playful and lighthearted moment between the two of you.
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Jumping Into Each Other's Arms
Photo by Sotiris Tsakanikas
Looking for a romantic action shot? Have your partner literally sweep you off your feet. The endeavor will not only offer a whole new angle, but it'll also evoke some laughs. Note: You don't have to take a running start (à la Dirty Dancing) for this one.
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Sharing a Laugh
Photo by John & Joseph
Candid laughter always looks great on camera. Your photographer may recommend this shot while getting ready, or when taking portraits with your partner and wedding party.
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Blowing in the Wind
PHOTO BY BOKEH COMPANY
Whether it’s a windy day or not, photographers will want to capitalize on a gorgeous veil with a few creative poses. To get an editorial shot of your prized accessory, have someone raise, and then drop, your veil as you steal a kiss from your partner.
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Hiding Under the Veil
Photo by Danielle Determan
Don't hesitate to get under your veil together. You may require an assistant for this one, but under-the-veil imagery is about as intimate and dreamy as it gets. Just take the portraits from this California garden wedding as proof.
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Looking Back
PHOTO BY LIZ ANDOLINA PHOTOGRAPHY
Wedding photographers love to capture a subtle glance at the camera. Expect to lean into this photogenic pose throughout the day, from prep to couple photos, as well as during individual portraits.
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Embracing One Another
Photo by Sydney Noelle Photography
Oftentimes, a tight hug has the ability to pull at our heartstrings—and convey even more emotion than a kiss. Depending on the angle, this can also be a subtle way of showing off an intricate bridal hairstyle from the back.
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Looking at Each Other
PHOTO BY SHANNON MOFFIT
Whether you're guided by your photographer or naturally pulled in, locking eyes with your partner makes for an adorable photo. Regardless of whether you're standing still or in motion, this shot is always one for the books.
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Sharing a Kiss
Photo by Olivia Leigh Photographie
Whether in an intimate, private moment or surrounded by onlooking guests, sharing a kiss with your partner is a must-take photo. Instead of attempting to stage it or recreate something you've seen before, let it flow naturally for a memory that's authentic to you two.
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Holding Hands on a Walk
Photo by Moni & Adri Photography
Sometimes, a simple shot of you and your partner holding hands and walking together is the perfect way to capture the moment. Here, two brides replicate the pose from the side; another iteration is having one of you lead the other toward the camera.
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Touching Noses
Photo by Ivy Weddings
If your noses naturally touch when standing face to face, turn it into a romantic shot. During their vibrant multi-day nuptials in Mexico, this couple's photographer captured the bride and groom in precisely such a moment.
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Dramatically Dipping One Another
Photo by Scarlet O'Neill
The pure drama of a cinematic dip is difficult to top. Have your partner spin you around before bending into a romantic kiss with a flourish. If you're sporting a substantial train, have your photographer or an assistant move it around you for a sweeping effect.
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Wrapping Your Arms Around Each Other
Photo by The Foxes Photography
Thanks to awkward prom photos, the back-to-front embrace has garnered quite a negative stigma. However, these newlyweds illustrate just how tender and natural the pose can be.
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Dancing Alone
Photo by Michelle Scott Photography
While it may be difficult to forget that there's a photographer in your midst, get lost in the moment and relish each other's company for a photo that illustrates the deepness and intimacy of your love.
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Feeling the Emotions of the Day
Photo by Hugo Coelho Photography
Don't shy away from capturing the raw, unfiltered emotion your feel while celebrating your love. If the tears come, let them, and capture a timeless photo similar to this one. You'll be happy you did.
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Standing Side by Side
PHOTO BY HOUSE ON THE CLOUDS
Celebrate your new marital status with a dynamic power couple pose you'll look back on fondly. Have your partner stare affectionately at you while you set your gaze on the camera's lens.
Additional reporting by Corinne Pierre-Louis
